These letters contain details of sexual assault and sexual harassment.
I was first molested by my cousin, he was a teenager, I was a toddler. He climbed in my bed one night startling me awake and he touched my privates and made me touch his all the while telling me “it’s ok”. I knew deep down it wasn’t ok, but at the same time I trusted him, he was like my brother. He was caught and sent away to another state, I never saw him again. He left me with a fear I had never experienced, I was afraid at night in my
Why is it up for debate if he is a perpetrator when he already made me his victim?
If I hear one more time how he is a good person… he obviously wasn’t one to me. You are not neutral, you are simply shitty friends. If you don’t want to take sides… you are taking sides. Because there is no way that you believe and understand what happened to me and keep being friends with him. There is no way that
we were 14 . he was my boyfriend, he manipulated me, forced me to think that’s what love was , that i was alone and no one else would be around for apart from him. every day he would pressure me, guilt trip me with sayings like, this is what everyone does, ur not normal, you don’t love me, i’ll leave you, i’ll tell everyone we had sex (even though we didn’t). every day for weeks— until i finally gave in and sent pictures.
The first time I felt like my body wasn’t mine, was when he kissed me on my 16th birthday and then put his hand down my pants without asking.
The next time I was too drunk to walk home so he let me stay in his sisters bedroom and he put his dick in me even after I said no. He cried to me after and blamed it on the fact he had OCD.
My first boyfriend of 2 and a half years when I was 14/15 started to have sexual impulses that I was not was asking or ready for. Forcing me up against a wall in public, at school, with his hands up my shirt or in between my legs. On days that he was short tempered I would be left exposed trying to cover myself up while he left me alone to deal with my emotions and my messy half clothed body. He then would threaten me that he would
