Dear Me Too Letters,

When I was 14, I sat in a gym class between my 2 best friends and learned that 1 in 3 women get raped. I made a joke about how it might be me because I was 14 and didn't know better. A few days later my boyfriend, who was already pressuring me into doing things I didn't want to do, came to my house. He mentioned how I had said I wanted to be raped. I laughed and said "oh yeah, rape me." He proceeded to push me against a wall. I said no. I said I didn't want this. I cried. I said I was joking. He did it anyway. I dumped him shortly after. He told everyone I liked getting raped. He then formed a band with my 2 friends and their boyfriends. I was not invited. They learned the song "Rape Me" by Nirvana and dedicated it to me. People would sing it to me in the halls of school. I denied anything happened. My friends didn't believe me. They told me every rumor has a kernel of truth, so what he said must have been true.